Dear,
- 8月 31 週一 201511:14
21 days pat talk - Day 21
Dear,
- 8月 30 週日 201511:14
21 days pat talk - Day 20
Dear,
- 8月 29 週六 201511:14
21 days pat talk - Day 19
Dear,
How often do you give what you have to others rather than taken from others? How do you feel to give to homeless people? Do you feel it was taken away your wealth by helping people? Do you think outside symbols represent you at all?
Well Dear,
"Outside symbols can't determine who we are. We drive a C class Bens doesn't make us a humble person. We wear nice suit doesn’t mean we are better than others, even a homeless person. What can make us better is to enjoy giving than taking. Giving what we have, and share it with others. One rich heart is much more important than a poor heart. This rich heart is not determined by money, but by how much you share and give. It is an abundance feel.
Share with you this video. How rich is your heart?"
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Live a day with joy and Gratitude
I am thankful and I am happy
Thank you, I love you
- 8月 28 週五 201511:14
21 days pat talk - Day 18
Dear,
How often do you hear people around say to you, "it is impossible. You won't able to do it. It is not gonna happened." etc? What do you do when you hear them say.these? Do you give up or you stick with what you want?
How often do you hear people around say to you, "it is impossible. You won't able to do it. It is not gonna happened." etc? What do you do when you hear them say.these? Do you give up or you stick with what you want?
- 8月 27 週四 201511:14
21 days pat talk - Day 17
Dear,
What do you usually do before go to bed? Pray? Think about the day you have? Think nothing just go straight to bed? Carry anger to bed? Carry happy feeling to the dream?
Well Dear,
"Days have good and bad. No matter what kind of the day we have, it is good to thanks for the day. Thanks for the good days so we have blast. Thanks for the tough days so we can learn and be positive. Thanks to have another day past safely so we are able to lay down on our beds comfortly tonight. Then, think good things for tomorrow to happen, so we will wake up in smiles to know, <it is going to be a great day again today>."
Day with joy and gratitude
I am thankful and I am happy
Thank you, I love you
- 8月 26 週三 201511:14
21 days pat talk - Day 16
Dear,
You think you were hurt because others seemed doubt you and not trust you. You didn’t believe their explainations. You hold on that hurt inside of you and became so much anger. You blamed them to give you these bad experiences. You said you hated them treat you this way. No matter how many times others say sorry to you. No matter how sincer others treat you after you felt hurt. You just couldn't take it. You let anger grow and explore.
Well Dear,
"We all hurt by someone at some points in this life time. It is normal and it is a good thing. The hurt can help us to grow stronger if we let ourselves to heal and see the positive side. Yes, blame someone is OK, at least it can let an anger to relieve at the point, but don't take that too long. When we become a habit to blame someone, then everything others say or do will become an offense to us, and we will feel hurt all the times. Why make our life so hard and so blamful? Why can't we be more positive and easy? Plus, those who are willing to apologize to us are the ones care and love us. Is it fair to treat people we love this way? Or maybe we take their love for granted so we can keep blaming them and express anger?
Dear, no one can actually heal our hurt, only us. Put a bandage, and heal it. It is the best way to love us and respect others who love us too."
Day with joy and gratitude
I am thankful and I am happy
Thank you, I love you
- 8月 25 週二 201511:14
21 days pat talk - Day 15
Dear,
How often do you hear people say this to you, "I am saying this because I love you, you are so fat. Could you change your outfit, it is so ugly? Why don't you listen to me at first place? See, I told you so." and so on more? What do you do when you hear it? You either ignore or be affected then start changing. Changing either to a positive way, or becomes no confidence. One day wake up, you ask yourself, "who am I? Why don't I know myself anymore?"
Well Dear,
"Love Ourselves Before love Others. This love not a selfish self-love. It is a love to love who we are from inside to outside. Totally accept ourselves. Yes, we can take others suggestions, but before that, we have to love Ourselves enough so we don't take any suggestion like offense. We shall should change ourselves to be good, strong, consideration, kind or confident, but that should change under our own will, because we love Ourselves not because someone just says so. Then when we love Ourselves more enough, we are capable to love Others just the way we love our own."
Day with joy and gratitude
I am thankful and I am happy
Thank you, I love you
- 8月 24 週一 201523:14
21 days pat talk - Day 14
Dear,
You met some people were so mean to you without reasons. That made you screaming inside the car and curse when alone. They picked on you everything when there was actually nothing. They seemed just had so much fun to against everything you did.
Well Dear,
"Thanks to these people, or so called enemies. Because of them, we had a chance to grow stronger, become more kind and consideration. Plus, because of them we had a chance to scream loud out. For a sake, who knew how long we hadn't scream to let stress or unhappy out. Thanks them to give us this great chance to formally screaming. Things always have two sides. It is all depends on what we choose to take. Happy and positive or angry and negative? Enemies? Not stand a chance. No more. "
Day with joy and gratitude
I am thankful and I am happy
Thank you, I love you
- 8月 23 週日 201523:14
21 days pat talk - Day 13
Dear,
Have you wonder why some others can have a good relationship, nice marriage, sweet children, and a good job when they not pray for that, but you pray so hard and still not get? Have you wonder why you have to go on a religious road when others don't need and still have a happy life? Why do you have to play so hard and still not get?
Well Dear,
"We all have our lessons to learn and finish this life. We planned them before we come to this life. We may want to experience how to love, so we keep in and out a relationship. We may want to find our true identity, so we go on a religious road. We may just want to have an easy life to enjoy, so we don't have any difficult time. They are all our choices and plans. Every moment, every situation, and every event is an lesson for us to learn and transform. Embrace and smile."
Day with joy and gratitude
I am thankful and I am happy
Thank you, I love you
- 8月 22 週六 201523:14
21 days pat talk - Day 12
Dear,
How was your day today? Filled with happiness or madness? What are you thinking right now? Regret not have a good day or feel peace at where you are now? Worry what will be like tomorrow?
Well Dear,
"Second before was the past. Second later is future. Only this second is Now. Let us live is the moment now and enjoy it. What past was past, not able to change as we want to rewrite. What in the future is future, change is the only sure happen thing. So why not live in the moment? Right at this moment, feel our heart at here, feel ourselves at present, feel everything around us. Not just around, but also put ourselves into it. Because all the feelings only exist at this right moment, and it changes and gone at right next second. Close eyes and listen. Do you feel it? Do you feel you are union with the entire universe at this right moment? No others, but you? Because we live in the moment. Enjoy. "
Day with joy and gratitude
I am thankful and I am happy
Thank you, I love you
禪與修行 (7)